Happy Birthday to our BEAUTIFUL little Bianca! She is truly such a little gem and joy to have in our family that I’m not confident I’ll be able to adequately put it into words. But I’ll try my best.

First of all, Bianca just loves. She loves everybody in her life—parents, siblings, grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles. She just loves everybody. But she also just loves each day of living her adorable little life. She finds joy in all the little things—like coming with me to pick up Helen from kindergarten or wearing her hair in a bun—and all the big things—like planning and celebrating her birthday! Her love and joy are so contagious that everybody leaves Bianca’s presence happier and better than when she found them.  I’m truly grateful for her example of love and joy.

Some more specific things that Bianca loves are as follows:

• Being fancy, royal, beautiful, or any kind of grown up
• Deer. Her birthday was themed “deers and flowers.”
• Helping at home. Though this love has limitations (such as doing her assigned chores)
• Babies and dolls to whom she can be a good mommy.
• Everything about preschool!
• Choosing outfits and laying them out for the next day.
• Having curly hair.
• Baby Shark.

Bianca is the perfect little caboose to our family; she makes sure we can’t help but continually see the magic in life. We simply adore her!

Happy Birthday, Anker Bonkers!

Helen celebrated her 6th birthday this past Tuesday, March 12. She had a grand and magnificent vision for her birthday, and she lived up every moment of it!

Helen wanted a St. Patrick’s Day themed birthday party this year. I loved that because, since having two birthdays within a week of St. Patrick’s Day, I have kind of given up on planning much for the day itself. With her birthday being St. Patrick’s-y, I felt like I totally got my fill! (But Josh made sure we partied today as well, because he is the ACTUAL best person ever!)

Just a few days before Helen turned 6, she lost her first tooth and was richly rewarded! That week she also made some good progress on something from school and she jubilantly declared “This is my growing week!” She loves getting big and doing big girl things. I love watching her enthusiasm for all these big girl things.

What you ought to know about Helen is that she is good to her core. She just wants to do what’s right and learn and grow and make people happy and have fun. She also very clearly loves the Savior. We frequently casually say things about this or that family member being the best ever (see above 😂), and often Helen will say “No, Jesus is.” And she’s absolutely right. She also will mention gospel principles that apply to things every day situations, such as “I shared with Bianca, and that is following Jesus.” I am truly so grateful for her desire to follow the Savior and for her example of joyfully loving Him. Loving Helen is also a very joyful thing to do!

Helen also loves being fancy! She loves the days where she gets to dress up in some way for school; she loves making dress-up out of just about anything she can find; and she loves pretending that she’s a princess or a grown-up going somewhere fancy, or just embracing a fancy moment. I must confess, I find myself wanting to follow her example in creating fancy moments more often.

Helen got high heel Sunday shoes for her birthday as well as this very fancy fur stool. This picture was the fancy moment she created when she was trying on her Easter dress. We might have to get some more official versions of this fancy moment photographed some time.

Also for her birthday, Helen received a MUCH anticipated set of Easter bunny accessories. She loves them, and I get a decent kick out of ways and times she decides to become an Easter bunny.

Around the end of January, Helen determined that she NEEDED a Valentine’s Day outfit. Here are some of the contenders. I made the dress/skirt for both outfits. (Feel free to be impressed)

Helen also just loves to play and have fun! She is six, after all!

Helen is such a fun part of our family. One thing I loved about her birthday was that she was so excited and ready to have a fun celebration that nothing anybody did or didn’t do could phase her on her day. If somebody got grumpy (which definitely happened because we were still slowly recovering from daylight savings), she just happily ignored them and went on with her birthday plans. And that is kind of how she rolls in general as well. She likes to be happy, and I would even be so bold as to say this sweet little girl already knows how to “live after the manner of happiness.” She certainly makes my life happier.

Birthday season has begun for the Monson family! And today we got to celebrate a super exciting birthday with Portia! Turning 8 is an especially big deal because now Portia can be baptized and receive the gift of the Holy Ghost! She is super excited about making covenants with God, and understands what it means so much better than I did at age 8. I have seen in Portia, her whole life, a desire to do what is right and to serve the Lord, and I am so grateful for that about her.

Some other fun things about Portia right now include:

• She still loves beavers
• She makes up funny songs
• She loves crafting, cooking, and all kinds of creating
• She loves makeup and fanciness (see her makeup she did herself in the above picture)
• She is on an adorable dance team
• She’s friendly and fun to be with
• She’s still as precocious as ever

Here’s some pictures with captions that help explain how cool Portia is!

Last week, I got to go on a field trip with Portia’s class. It was so fun to see Portia with all her friends. And I felt super cool that she even wanted to sit by me on one of the bus rides even though her best friend was there.

I also took the opportunity to get a picture with Portia and her “twin” Owen. They are both spunky little blondes with the last name of Monson in the same school class. Portia says that whenever there is a substitute she’ll ask if they are twins. I tell Portia she should just say “yes”, because that’s the closest I’ll ever get to having the boy/girl twins I always wanted.

Also, Portia is on her cute little dance team! She has been working so hard all school year on her routines and yesterday was her first dance competition! It was a long, busy day; but Portia rocked those dances! I was so proud of her! Her team even got a “white diamond” rating for one of their dances which is the highest diamond rating you can get!

And today, we celebrated all the wonder and beauty that is Portia! She picked out her meals, activities, and decorations. And, in spite of an exhausting day yesterday, losing an hour of sleep last night to daylight savings, and a two-hour break for church, she had a great day of fun celebrating!

Of course we adore this girl! We think she’s just about as terrific as 8-year-olds come!

Pictures for this post will be things I made in the year 2023.

I’m so excited to share my theme word for 2024! I knew exactly what I wanted my word to be for this year even back in October, and so far I am having a lot of fun with it! My word for 2024 is … Run! When I mentioned this to my sister, Mary, she asked me “So how are you defining that word?” And my response is:

“Physically go running.”

It’s as simple as that this year! I think it is fun to have the really nebulous words like I did last year, where there’s a jillion ways to interpret them. But I also like years of the very clear-cut, easy to not overthink words. And #Run2024 will definitely be that!

Now, you may be wondering the background for my choice of the word run. But even if you weren’t I’m about to share it!

It all began back in the year 2000. That fall, I began 5th grade. My older sister began 6th grade (Shout out to Kathryn Muhlestein Lyde!). Her 6th grade teacher was the new, young, cool, way fun teacher who everybody really wanted to get. (Shout out to Liz Lyde Smith!) One thing that Miss Lyde did with her class was have them all run in the afternoon. They worked all year to be able to run a mile. And Kathryn, being the enthusiastic and eager learner/doer she is, relished this opportunity for growth. I’m pretty sure my brother Michael–who also had Miss Lyde–also had to run the mile, but probably just tried to block it from his memory. But Kathryn got super excited about running that mile, and her excitement was contagious to me (at least somewhat). I don’t know if I actually ever went running because of all this; but I certainly had good feelings about running because of it.

I didn’t get to have Miss Lyde for 6th grade; so I never got to run the mile at that point in my life. But I still always had good feelings about the idea of being able to run that far. I went on a few runs with my sisters in junior high, and they were honestly not at all fun. But nobody was making me run, so I didn’t have to resent being forced to do it. Plus, I still just figured that if I were willing to practice, it would get more fun.

Then came high school. In P.E. we had to run 1.5 miles, and I don’t remember having any strong feelings about it. Though I do remember the teacher telling us “Don’t think of it as a mile and a half. Just think of it as a 15 minute jog.” and that actually did help me. So, thanks Miss Tippets! But I happened to be friends with a lot of people on Cross Country. They talked all about how great Cross Country was and how I should totally join because the people were so great. I acknowledged that the people I knew who were on Cross Country were great, and I still had those residual good feelings about running, so I signed up.

I was absolutely terrible. Unlike the friends who suggested I join, I was in my first year, I wasn’t in the conditioning class, and I had some kind of conflict after school, so only came to practice some of the time. I only ran in two meets, and I did so poorly I don’t think I ever cared to know what my times were. But, even with all that, I had seen some improvement that little season, and I was proud of it. And those good feelings managed to linger.

I had little running goals through my first year or two of college; but something bigger was coming! Somehow, I signed up to run a marathon. The whole 26.2 miles!

I genuinely don’t remember the details, but my sister, Christina and I along with our cousins Asael and Benson, decided we should all run a marathon together. I was excited about it. But I can promise you, I never would have run that marathon if it hadn’t been for Asael (Shout out to you, Wigwam member!) showing up at my apartment every morning at 8:00. He was seriously the best, because by the time he arrived chez moi, he had already run a mile, and he literally woke me up with his knocking! If he hadn’t been my running buddy, the marathon seriously never would have happened. Or even come remotely close! And he tolerated all those hours of talking to me while we ran way. too. many. miles. I have one fond memory of us taking turns reciting paragraphs of The Living Christ together while we ran.

I also had a FANTASTIC room-mate that summer (shout to Meg Andrew McNary!) who loved running. And even though I was running in the mornings to train, we would go for runs together in the evenings for funsies! And we kept running for fun through the rest of the summer, long after the race had passed.

But, anyway, I ran that marathon! And I even did it in less than 5 hours, which was a big deal for me!

The following autumn, I met this fantastic guy named Josh. (Shout out to the best husband ever!) And his family was pretty into exercising at that moment in history. So he was happy to run with me! Plus, we were poor college students who would use any excuse to spend time together doing things that were free, so we ran together a bunch. There was one Saturday where we just started running, and ended up running all the way to his grandma’s house, visited a while, and then ran home. It was just so delightful to run with my love!

After we got married, I ran a lot less (#babies). Josh and I did decide to run a half marathon when Fay was 1. We only kind of trained for it, and our time showed that. But it was still fun to say we did it. And after that, I really didn’t run for a LOT of years. We always had a baby, or I was pregnant, and we had lots of little kids that couldn’t be left alone, etc, etc, etc. Plus, having 5 babies did a number on my pelvic floor, and I had my doubts if I would ever be able to run again.

But, starting in 2022, I slowly tried running again. I bravely took time away from my children (it is SO helpful that Josh works from home), I figured out what I could do to manage the incontinence, and I started small. Thanksgiving 2022, the Monsons did their traditional turkey run and I joined in for a 5k. I walked a lot; but I did the whole thing, and I was really proud of having done it. And then in September/October of 2023, I decided I was ready to get serious again! And I’ve been running multiple times most every week since then!

My brother (Shout out to Jordan!) is an avid runner, and I really like the way he sets his running goals. He simply sets a goal of miles to run during the year. He has very exciting and high numbers of miles he reaches for and surpasses each year; but I am a renewed beginner, so my goal is not so lofty. I will feel like a complete success if I run 300 miles this calendar year. That is approximately 25 miles a month. So far, this month, I have run about 21. So I feel like I’m on track for now! Another goal I have is to do at least one race. Jordan said I could join him on his half marathon this September, which sounds exciting and daunting. We’ll see if I make it!

I’m already really enjoying the running I’m doing this year! And I am looking forward to, hopefully, making running a big, positive part of my life again. I have even had a chance to run with Josh a couple of times this year (big deal for him, because he hasn’t been able to run since breaking his foot in 2020), and he’s still the best running companion! I’d go running with him regularly forever!

And, truthfully, I’m looking forward to seeing how the Savior teaches me more about Himself and His love through running!

I have been so excited to share some of my beautiful experiences from this past year! I looked back at my original post about my “beautify” theme and I had said I wanted to focus my beautifying efforts in three areas:

• Myself
• My home
• My yard

And it seems like that was definitely the correct order to list them in, because that is the order of priority I gave them.

What I continue to notice as I select these yearly themes is how much Heavenly Father takes my minuscule efforts and miraculously turns them into the things I was hoping for. And I certainly saw this in all the areas I made attempts to beautify.

For the yard, I made a small effort to provide a little bit more seating outside. But Heavenly Father gave us lots of snow and rain which gave us a green lawn that our whole family was able to go out and enjoy! And the fact that the lawn wasn’t constantly on the brink of death made it more encouraging to keep trying to get the sprinklers right. (And, of course, I didn’t work on sprinklers at all. That beauty all came from Josh! <3 )

For the house, my dream was to get rid of lots of stuff, NOT acquire new stuff, and organize everything so that the house is always clean and orderly. Obviously, with that being much too lofty a goal, we didn’t get to that point. But two major things this year did make a noticeable difference in the beauty of our home. The first is that we replaced our old couch. It was a wonderful couch for many years; but it looked like it had been around for many years. Our new couches are so beautiful and have transformed the whole family room for the better! I’m grateful for our new furniture. The other huge thing that has beautified our home came in the form of an amazing deal from DI. A carpet-cleaner-wet-vacuum for $12! I am amazed at how much cleaner and well maintained the house looks when I clean the carpets. And I love that I can use it whenever I simply can’t stand the dirt in a specific room, and that I don’t have to commit to getting the whole house cleaned at the same time. And I love that I don’t have to commit to many hundreds of dollars to get things looking truly clean! I genuinely feel like finding that vacuum for so cheap was a miracle. And I am so grateful for the beauty we have experienced in our home because of it!

But now, let’s talk about what really happened this beautiful year. The changes that I have seen in my own heart and mind this year are far more beautiful than anything I could ever do in my house or yard. And they are far more miraculous than anything I ever could have done on my own–the greatest evidence of the aforementioned Divine intervention. So much of the beauty I discovered this year was thanks to the fact that I miraculously (it’s own little saga) began therapy for OCD and anxiety at the end of January 2023. I worked very hard on my exposures and found lots of relief from things that have caused me lots of fear, and have gained countless tools for nipping potential OCD triggers in the bud. But therapy was also immensely beautiful because my therapist helped me to dig deep into my own heart and ask myself why I was doing things and if those things were serving me.

A beautiful principle I have learned is that my pride–any kind of pride, no matter how insignificant it seems–adds to my mental load and makes me more prone to lousy mental health. I started typing a big long paragraph explaining what I mean by that; but ultimately decided to leave it at the original statement.

But that discovery, about the relationship between pride and my mental health, led me to the most beautiful discovery of all! I have begun to recognize and utilize the beautiful, healing, transforming power of the gift of repentance. It’s not that I have never had experiences with repentance before; I’ve been trying to repent for my whole life. But the Savior was able to show me things in a new light this year as I addressed my sins and pride in connection with my efforts to invite peace into my mind. Repentance and its subsequent spiritual healing is how I have been able to lighten my mental load in order to make space for the Savior to heal me physically and mentally.

I’m grateful for this opportunity to reflect on the changes I have seen; because they remind me that the gift of repentance is still available to me, and I can be sure that I will continue to be blessed. It makes me want to really sit down and figure out which things I can remove from my life. I know I still have a lot of pride, resentment, judgemental thoughts, and every other vice one can imagine that I still hang on to. But I know that even letting one of them go will bring the Savior’s blessings into my life. And I want that!

I had a beautiful experience about that in the temple a month or two ago. I was pondering on how willing the Savior is to forgive sins, even my vilest of all sins. And I was feeling grateful for His loving willingness. But I also felt like a mere pardon wasn’t really what I was seeking. In my mind, I told the Savior, “Thanks for the forgiveness, really. But what I really want is to be different! To never make that mistake again! To not be proud in this way anymore ever. To never go back to the kind of mindset that leads to that sort of behavior. I want You to change me. I want you to make me like You.” I know that such longings of my heart are exactly what the Savior promises. In Ezekiel 36:26, He says ^“A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh.” But I’m also learning (again) that His timetable is absolutely GINORMOUS compared with mine. I sometimes tire of “line upon line” learning and just want Him to lay His hands on my head and make me a completely new creature today. But He knows that becoming is a process not an event, and that these baby steps forward and the frustrating failures and shortcomings are actually what create anyone. Even Jesus Christ Himself did it that way. In D&C 93:12-13 it says “And I, John, saw that he received not of the fulness at first, but received grace for grace; And he received not of the fulness at first, but continued from grace to grace until he received a fulness.”

So, if even the Savior of all mankind had to learn and “become” one step at a time, I suppose I’ll do my best to tolerate it. 🙂

In 2023, I saw the Savior magnify my efforts so many times in so many ways! He taught me so many things and gave me so many miracles that it would take approximately forever to put them all in writing. But if you ever feel like having a very spirited discussion on beautiful lessons from the Savior, please hit me up, and we’ll have tons of fun and probably do quite a bit of joyful crying!

And now, we have a new beautiful year! I have my theme verb all picked out and begun, even, but in the spirit of blogging more than once every three months and keeping you in infuriating suspense, I’m going to make you wait for another post to hear all about it. (mwah ha ha!!) But I can already tell you that I am SUPER excited to see how the Savior takes this (of all words) and teaches me more about Himself and His love for me in 2024!

Up until October had already begun, I had no idea if Josh was going to put anything together for Halloween or not. In years past, he has commenced dreaming/scheming/planning in about July or August; but this year, he just couldn’t come up with an idea that really felt like a winner. And work was busy, and we went on a big expensive trip, and we still have five kids, etc. etc. etc.

But things at work slowed down and people started asking Josh about his plans (peer pressure power!) at the optimal time to facilitate the quickest turn-around for Halloween we’ve ever had! He built this custom animatronic, interactive Halloween game from start to finish in 11 days!

If you were lucky enough to come and play it, you already know how impressive that 11 day effort was! An exciting new thing that helped things go so quickly was that Josh got AI to do the grunt work (like coming up with a base script that Josh improved upon, coming up with random examples for the categories game, creating a poster image, etc). I don’t, personally, care very much for AI; but I can’t deny that Josh was really able to profit from it this year. I told him that it is now officially his responsibility to teach our children to use AI in appropriate and upstanding ways. 🙂 If that part of education was left to me, we would all probably swear off any and all technology developed post 2010. (Only half-joking.)

But we had lots of Halloween fun this year even outside Josh’s legendary yard attraction!

We had our family Halloween party where we let all the siblings and niblings play the attraction.

Early in October, I was able to convince 3 of the girls to come up the canyon with me to enjoy the autumn leaves. Last year, I only convinced one, and another was brought along forceably.

And with the advent of cooler weather comes the compulsive need to “yarn.” So I have crocheted approximately a thousand pumpkins (okay, only 10), and I knitted this sweater for Portia. I am newer to knitting, and I made this sweater 3 different times before it got to be something that Portia would even consider wearing. But I am very pleased with the end result, and even MORE pleased that it is, indeed, the END result.

And then came the magical day, itself! The three bigger kids went out trick-or-treating by themselves this year (BIG DEAL!) and I took the two youngest with me. Everybody got lots of yummy candy, and we even got over 100 trick-or-treaters at our house! I forgot to take a picture of the post trick-or-treating spoils, and I’m genuinely bummed. That is one of my favorite parts of the day.

Josh has some analytics attached to his attraction and it looks like the game was played about 400 times over the course of the month! So famous!

And now that the spooky magic of Halloween has past, we are enjoying being thankful! I love celebrating the Thanksgiving Season with “thankful minutes” during the day, and keeping our growing list of gratitude on the kitchen door. I am truly thankful for this life of mine, and for this season of the year!

There is so much I could say about this trip that Josh and I took, just the two of us! But I fear that if I try to go into much detail I’ll get discouraged by the grandeur of the task and never record anything. So this will mostly be pictures. But just know that Josh and I had a positively heavenly vacation together on Oahu, and we would recommend such a trip to anyone who can manage it. 🙂

The best part of the trip was that we just did whatever we felt like whenever we felt like doing it. If we didn’t see everything there was in Oahu, it didn’t matter! The point of going was to just be together in a fun, lovely place without kids. And we did, and it was wonderful!

And a HUGE thank-you to Josh’s mom for making the “without-kids” aspect of the trip a reality! She is our hero! <3 <3 <3

We decided to make our vacation the grand finale to our summer break, going to Lake Tahoe the week before school started. The last time we went to Lake Tahoe was in 2018. It was beautiful and so much fun, that time, but it was also so. much. work. Helen was a 5 month old baby, and Fay was only 6; so it was a lot of effort to keep 4 little kids alive in the water. Plus, it is just a lot of work to keep 4 little kids entertained, occupied, happy, etc. anywhere, but especially when they are so far away from their comfort zone.

But I’m glad we did it, even with all the effort it was. And I didn’t realize until this past trip how many family traditions we unwittingly established on that trip.

The first tradition we established was that of stopping at the Salt Flats and the obligatory “model poses” thereat. This tradition began because of this picture I happened to take of Portia back in 2018.

We joked, as we reviewed our pictures after that trip, that Portia looked like some kind of magazine model with her head-tilt and ultra blonde hair standing out in the winter-white salt flats.

And now we always need to take “model pictures” when we are there.

Except that Carter really didn’t want one. So I got what I could from him.

Another tradition we happened to start back in 2018 was that of turning all the girls into sand mermaids (see above). I think I probably made 8ish mermaid tails this past trip, and that was with me saying “no” multiple times. 😂 But I’ll spare you every iteration, and just show you one picture.

Carter didn’t care to be turned into a merman; but he did make himself a sand thrown that was pretty impressive!

Another tradition we kept was the beaches we went to. We got some tips for some pretty picturesque beaches; but we found that we really preferred to just go back to Pope Beach. It was close to our airbnb, had good sand and convenient bathrooms, and was just our favorite. I’m not opposed to trying new beaches in the future; but I’m also not opposed to going back to Pope.

One thing that we did that was not a tradition, but definitely shall be is take a paddle-board with us! I have learned that I LOVE being on the water (more so than in the water)! We would take turns rowing out with different assortments of kids in tow, and every time I went it was just delightfully relaxing and exhilarating! It was so good!

Anyway, our days at Lake Tahoe kind of went like this

• Wake up, get dressed, and have breakfast leisurely
• Leave to go on some kind of hike or nature walk (because the mornings are rather chilly for swimming)
• Return to the house to change into swimming stuff
• Head to the beach and have lunch casually between trips to the water and breaks to become a mermaid
• Return to the house because we got rained out of the beach
• Watch a movie
• Play outside (if the rain stopped) or around the house
• Have dinner
• Play card games, read books, have a dance party, etc.
• A long, extra-arduous bedtime routine

Obviously there was some variation between the days; but it really did kind of follow that pattern. It was funny that it rained most of the days we were there. But I wouldn’t even call it unfortunate. I loved having the relaxing movie-watching late afternoons. And I loved that it never got hot. And I loved smelling the rain. And I loved even being out in the rain when it was more along the lines of drizzle status than torrential downpour. 😊

Here are some more pictures of the trip starting with

The kids room in the house!

And here are some views from our time in the mountains!

One of my, personal, favorite things to be found around Lake Tahoe is the assortment of tiny to ENORMOUS pine cones! I keep meaning to bring some of the really big ones home to use in Christmas decor somehow and always forget. (But the kids all got home; so I consider that a success!) Here is Portia demonstrating the array we were able to round up mostly from the trees in “our” back yard!

I told Josh, as we got back on the road to come home, that this family vacation was the most fun, relaxing vacation I have had since 2013 (when we only had one child). Josh said he felt like it was a lot of work. So, I want to make sure I acknowledge how much Josh personally took care of. Josh loves to plan trips, and he REALLY planned this one! He found the house, he packed the car, he planned and prepared ALL the meals, he found fun things to bring in the car to entertain the kids, and he kept the diabetic girls alive when they went low in the night. He was truly so So SO good to us all! I’m so grateful for him!!! But I also hope that next time we can be a little more of a team with all the things so that he feels as good at the end of the trip as the rest of us do.

Thanks Josh. I love you more than everything! ❤️‍🔥 😍😘 🫶 🥰 😚 ♥️

The title to this post was just too fun to pass up!

We have been some busy people this summer; but I feel like that fits us in with the rest of the world rather than setting us apart. 😊

June is the month of birthdays for Josh’s family—including Josh himself. We celebrated one family member with burgers and pickle-ball, one with painting mini game figures, one with Sonic and cake, and one with a grandkid bike race. It was possibly the cutest race in world history. Josh’s birthday was sandwiched right in the midst of helping family move house, and my sister Mary getting married followed by a Muhlestein family reunion, so his very birthday was quite lackluster.😢 But he did get to do his hoped-for activities later on! One thing he really wanted to do was a hike up Bell Canyon. We did it a couple weeks after his birthday and it was fun! The kids were a pack of wild cards; but we all made it out alive. We even visited with some water fowl at Bell Reservoir.

As previously mentioned, Mary got married in June. We had a lot of fun talking about “getting Mary-ed” and reminding that “when you marry in June, you’re a bride all your life.” I feel like I was more involved in this wedding than I was in my own. (Thank you to everybody who made our wedding happen when I decided to leave the country for the whole summer!!!) But Josh was the real hero from our family, because he made the ice-cream cart that was used at Mary’s open house! We tried to find one to rent for the evening, but we couldn’t find one around that was cute (at least nowhere near as cute as the one Josh made) or one that would let you serve your own ice-cream (as the bride wanted BYU creamery ice-cream and the only carts I could find were very specific to the brand of ice-cream that had to be served therefrom). So I talked to Josh about making one, and even (ultra-supportively) looked up some tutorials on youtube on how to make a basic cart. Josh looked at my research findings, scoffed, and said “I can make one better than that.”

Well, he was totally right. The cart he made turned out BEAUTIFULLY!

And now we have this super cute ice-cream cart just hanging around! We are thinking of renting it out for other people’s events. I thought it would be nice to just make back the money we spent on it. But when I told this to Daddy he said “No, you should rent it out as a public service. If this type of thing isn’t available anywhere else, you should make it available.” 😅 So, if you’re one of those people who is searching for a beautiful, insulated ice-cream cart that you can fill with the ice-cream of your choice for your shindig, hit us up!

I also wanted to mention that Mary and Cameron were married in the Bountiful Temple, and it was so beautiful and joyful to be there with them as they became a brand-new eternal family. And I’m just feeling so grateful for the fact that MY own eternal family began in the temple (even the same temple!) nearly 12 years ago. It is a constant comfort to me knowing that God is just as much a part of our marriage as Josh is or I am. Living happily ever after (even with all the “reality” that consumes most of our energy) is the best!

The other big thing Josh wanted to do for his birthday that got postponed an entire month was to go camping. We learned the hard way that if you want your pick of campgrounds during the summer you have to pick them about 6 months in advance. So our camping trip was just a fun little overnighter at Jordanelle Reservoir this past week. Josh was, again, the hero of everything. He arranged everything, packed everything, and endured a positively horrific night of managing 5 kids in the same tent, two of whom had wacky blood sugar. Josh is the best! But next time, I think we’re going to bring our other tent, and make sure we don’t forget extra diabetes supplies.

We had lots of fun at the beach, though! We played in the sand, did some paddle-boarding, and thoroughly enjoyed watching a dog fetching every stick he could get anybody to throw for him out of the lake! And sunburns were only minor! I call it a success! (Again, all thanks to Josh!)

Some other fun things we’ve been up to this summer include

Fay’s next horse show–she crushed it!

Splash-padding with friends

Trips to the aquarium

Making things out of veggie straws

And just hanging out

We’ve also been working our way through our traditional Harry Potter book of the summer. This year we’re on book 5! We’re getting excited about finishing it and having our movie party!

And, one of my favorite parts of summer has been how many fewer socks come through the laundry thanks to everybody wearing sandals so much more often. Ahhh. Life is good!

The title has a double meaning. The first is that Fay starts planning her birthday when Portia starts planning hers (in February), and it is quite a trial for her to have to wait two whole months longer than Portia for it to actually arrive. The other meaning of the title is that Fay’s birthday actually happened two whole months ago–May 7–and I’m only just now getting around to posting about it. I’m grateful that Fay is a patient girl.

It’s been a long time that I’ve been wanting to throw a Harry Potter themed 11th birthday for somebody. But Fay was the absolutely ideal candidate–as she loves reading the Harry Potter books, dressing up as the characters, playing Harry Potter games, and writing down spells she learns from any Harry Potter source available–so her birthday was super fun! She got a snowy owl who delivered her acceptance letter from Hogwarts, complete with list of required school supplies. She got a sorting hat that FINALLY sorted her officially into Gryffindor! (Good thing we already had the right color robes.) And she made her own “Forbidden Forest” cake that had Aragog 😖 and spider webs. She was delighted with all the Harry Potter festivities and decorations, and her reactions to everything made the day everything I ever dreamed of! Thanks, Fay!

But, Fay loves so much more than just Harry Potter! One thing she started doing since she turned 10 is riding horses. I didn’t even know horse riding was a thing a child could request to do as her extra curricular activity when I was a kid. But starting in about April of 2022, that was the only thing Fay wanted to do. Thanks to an internet search, we found a place nearby that offers riding lessons to kids, and she has been riding ever since last July. She LOVES being with the horses and learning new tricks and techniques. I must confess, I think it’s pretty rad that she does it. Also, to answer the most frequently asked question I receive when discussing Fay’s riding: she rides western, not English.

Fay also just loves animals in general. It is still her fondest wish to become a wildlife rehabilitation veterinarian when she grows up. (Also way cool!) This picture is Fay with a white “red fox” from a wildlife rescue facility we visited in April, and that trip definitely deserves its own post; but with me, who knows if it will ever get it. Anyway, Fay was in absolute heaven while we were at the rescue place and loved that she got to go in and actually play with the foxes as well as visiting with many other kinds of animals.

Fay has also become quite the little musician. She practiced the piano so hard all through the school year, and this is her crushing it at her recital in May. Her teacher, Miss Rose (also pictured), was AMAZING and we are so sad (for us, not her) to lose her to grad school. But we know she’ll do great! Anyway, Fay thinks she might like to switch instruments for the coming school year. She has expressed particular interest in learning the violin. If you know a good, reasonably priced, teacher for a beginning violinist near Riverton, let me know! 😉

Fay also LOVES to read! As in, she’s probably read more books in her life, already, than I have in mine. Like Carter, she competed in the Battle of the Books competition at school. She had so much fun reading the books and getting ready for the competition. Her team took 4th place for the 5th and 6th grade division (just like Carter’s team took 4th place for the 3rd and 4th grade division). It was a blast to watch her compete! And we’re so proud of her!

Another thing I am absolutely overjoyed to report is that Fay loves her family!! as well as her friends. She is a big, cool 5th/6th grader; but she still begged me to come chaperone on her class field-trip. This picture is one I took of her group at the Natural History Museum. She even preferred to sit by me on the bus ride back to school than her best friend.😊 It basically made my mommy life!

Fay is also just a fun little hoot of a girl to hang out with! This picture is of what I found when Fay concernedly called out “Mom, I have a big rash on my arm.” She is prone to eczema, so I went to investigate. I laughed out loud when I saw her “RASH.” She makes fun little jokes like that all the time, and it is so fun!

I could probably go on for hours about how much we love having Fay in our family. But then this blog would never get posted and Fay would have to wait another month for me to get around to it again. So we’ll leave it here. Thanks again for your patience, Fay!